Do you want Jesus to be your king and your lord?
(Rev. 17:14) “… he is Lord of lords, and King of kings…”
Thus for he to be your king, you yourself need to be a king!
To be a king means to control events around you. You should control events with prayer and word, in force of Holy Spirit, if you want to submit to Jesus. He isn’t a kind of regular persons, he is a king of kings!